I want to start with self hosting something available from internet. Currently I have jellyfin, nas etc but everything is available in local network.
My biggest concern is securing local network. I thought i will run application on separate server, I will use small vps as proxy, but Im not sure if it will be enough


Have you considered Cloudflare Tunnels/Zero Trust. When you use Cloudflare Tunnels/Zero Trust, you don’t need to fiddle with NAT, open any ports, in fact you don’t need any open ports. You just install Cloudflare Tunnels/Zero Trust on your server, connect to your Cloudflare Tunnels/Zero Trust account, and Cloudflare does the rest. To deploy Cloudflare Tunnels/Zero Trust you will need a domain name. Cloudflare will sell you a domain name but I think most get something cheap from NamesCheap or Pork Bun. When you have secured a domain name, switch the nameservers to the ones that Cloudflare assigns you. Jacks a doughnut, Bob’s your uncle.
ETA: Obviously you’ll need port 22 for administration.
sudo ufw default deny incoming
sudo ufw default allow outgoing
Yeah, but if my server is in the local network, I have potential threat that someone will access my lan through public server
Well, you could do network segmentation:
Utilize UFW rules. Mine are:
sudo ufw default deny incoming
sudo ufw default allow outgoing
Anywhere ALLOW IN 192.168.1.0/24
22 ALLOW IN 192.168.1.0/24
22 on tailscale0 ALLOW IN Anywhere
22 (v6) on tailscale0 ALLOW IN Anywhere (v6)
Also:
So now I have SSH capability locally and through Tailscale installed on the server and this prevents the server from initiating connections to other LAN devices. You can do alot with UFW and Fail2Ban in conjunction with Cloudflare Tunnels/Zero Trust.