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Or are you just jealous envious that she’s accomplished more than you?

Point of order,

Jealosy is a desire to own and keep from others something that is yours. It is in the same vein as zealotry.

Envy is wanting to own and take from others something that they have. It is in the same vein as coveting.

These are not synonymous, nor interchangeable.

Agreed. It doesn’t make much sense to have nukes before the flagpole dick-waving contest. If you do that, there’s no more anything left, so no flagpoles for contests. Much more practical to hold the contest first, and have the nukes after that.