Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13501735/Syrian-refugee-murders-Westernised-daughter-18-honour-killing-dumps-canal-started-dating-local-Dutch-boy-wanted-stop-wearing-headscarf.html

A Syrian refugee who fled to the Netherlands has reportedly confessed to murdering his 18-year-old daughter and dumping her body in a canal before fleeing the country in an apparent admission note sent to a Dutch newspaper.

Father-of-nine Khaled al-Najjar, 52, wrote in an email sent to De Telegraaf that he had killed his 18-year-old daughter Ryan al-Najjar, urging the publication to report ‘I am the one who killed’.

The confession did not specify exactly why he had decided to murder his daughter, with al-Najjar writing only that he was ‘very angry with her’, adding: ‘The reason is between me and the judge. I will read that in court’.

But neighbours and friends suspect Ryan’s death came as the result of an honour killing, with one claiming they had previously sheltered her when she had fled the family home in fear of retribution from her father.

Requesting anonymity to prevent any backlash, they told De Telegraaf that Ryan had a Dutch boyfriend, wanted to stop wearing a headscarf and had been beaten by her father who disagreed with her adoption of a Western lifestyle.

    • BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world
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      Religion is a plague.

      You can believe in things, even god(s) and not be “religious.” But as soon as religion kicks in, and the dogmatism and compartmentalization that comes with it, it becomes a tool of authoritarianism, which itself breeds every kind of inhuman horror imaginable.

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      Westerners can be so fucking weird. Some of these people would rather let teenage girls get beaten to death than risk compromising their own white saviour complex and need to feel tolerant. My family was Muslim and I’ve been told, by the whitest of the white, that I’m racist for saying something against Islam because “cultures must be respected”. I am racist against my own people? Oh my… then, of course, there’s the other Westerners who believe I obviously have four wives and trade in camels even when I claim not to be religious…

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      Your framing is off. Leftists don’t platform any religion. They simply don’t discriminate on the basis of religion. Again, on the basis of any religion.

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          The VAST majority of Muslims are just regular, kind people who don’t murder their families.

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            Yeah that’s great.

            But why, I really hate to be this guy right now, do leftists not platform Christianity if that is the case?

            Religion is a plague on this earth, just to make my position clear here so some idiot doesn’t think im a right wing chud.

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      The idea of using your religion as an excuse to kill people is not exclusive to Islam. There are actually quite a few instances in the christian bible where people kill due to religion.

      If you actually want to get away from religious killing, as a society, we must denounce religion as a whole. Blaming one religion is just stirring the pot.

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        Oh yeah, im very aware.

        But this article is about Islam, so im going to talk about Islam.

        Weird how that works huh?

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          You can’t do that when trying to make a point about something like religion. You are trying to set rules for the argument to go in your favor.

          The evil of Islam and the evil of Christianity are one in the same. The same can be said for any religion.

          This isn’t your world. You aren’t the main character. You don’t get to dictate the rules of an argument and truth. If you want to blame 1 religion for it’s evil, then blame all of them.

          Also I don’t think leftists support these actions. They support people’s rights to religious freedoms. It’s up to people themselves to know not to kill. This poor woman would’ve been killed even if her folks were Christian. They were mentally unstable to have thought this was a good thing.

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            Well yeah, id imagine leftists dont support these actions.

            Leftists dont support murder like the right does.

            I’m not talking about the cess pit that is Christianity and its kid diddling because this article isnt about Christianity.

            I’m speaking about Islam and its woman-killing because this article is about Islam and its woman-killing.

            Idk what to tell you.

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      And of course, there it is.

      Ryan’s murder is horrifying. She deserved safety, freedom, and support—but instead, she was failed by the people closest to her and by institutions meant to protect her. What happened to her wasn’t about Islam—it was about patriarchal control and deadly misogyny cloaked in the language of religion.

      And that’s not unique to Islam. In ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities, women have been attacked for dressing “immodestly” or denied divorces for years. In some conservative Christian circles, honor, shame, and purity culture have been used to justify abuse, disownment, or worse. This kind of violence is rooted in power, not faith.

      It is fundamentalist religion in general that puts women at risk. No single one is devoid of such attacks.

      It’s wrong to exploit Ryan’s death to stoke Islamophobia. Doing so ignores the broader pattern of gender-based violence that exists across cultures and religions. If we really care about preventing tragedies like this, we should be talking about how to hold abusers accountable, how to recognize warning signs, and how to protect women and girls from systems that excuse control as “tradition.”

      Blaming one single faith just distracts from real solutions.

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        It is fundamentalist religion in general that puts women at risk.

        Yeah, I get it, fundamentalists are terrible.

        But this one was a Muslim and leftists, for some reason, like to platform Islam while this bullshit happens.

        Islam, and pretty much every other religion, is an absolute plague on humanity.

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            Not sure why, its what I use to describe myself and my friends in a broad sense.

            Am I not allowed to criticize islam? Do I hand in my progressive card or something?

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              I often see the term leftist thrown around by right wing commentators like it’s a bad thing.

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                Where did I imply being a leftist was bad?

                I’m just perpetually confused as to why people on the left side of the spectrum platform Islam while it kills women and persecutes gay people🤷‍♂️

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                  You singled out leftists as doing something bad, ergo leftists are bad. Sorry, a bit of a knee jerk reaction on my part.

                  I guess it’s probably because leftists tend to promote religious tolerance even where it isn’t deserved (imo).

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        All religions are a monstrous evil.

        If you believe otherwise, you are comically naive and attitudes like yours are partly responsible for this child’s death.

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            lock up every religious people [sic] for this crime

            Religiosity isn’t a crime. There’s a shitload of evil in this world, and almost none of it is (or can ever be) “criminalized.”

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                Not all religious people are evil, just like not all ignorant people are evil. But all ignorance and all religion and prejudice and celebrity worship and cults and gambling and extended-cab pickup trucks are certainly evil.