You mean kids who get bullied don’t want to play with their bullies who will keep bullying them?

Because that’s what you are proposing with your “BOTH sides” fallacy. When one sides platform is to destroy every other side, there is no “uniting” with them. Republicans are not interested in coalitions, compromises, science, evidence, inclusion, equity, reason, logic, democracy, or diplomacy. They have become fascist by every definition and care only for domination and subjugation. In what ways can anyone contend with something like that? You know the answer, even if you aren’t ready to admit it yet.