I feel personally attacked
Whenever I am using the kitchen is the exact moment that everyone else decides they need something from it and try to shove past me.
I’ve also learned to let people form their own opinions on the food I made instead of preemptively telling them it didn’t come out as well as it could have. Unless it was my first time making something complex, they’ve always been satisfied :)
My kitchen is about 100 sqft wall-to-wall. No dishwasher so no matter what I do, there’s dishes in the sink/counter. EVERY DAMN TIME I try to cook a slightly complicated meal, my fiancée wants to help, the dogs want floor snacks, and the kid suddenly decides they want fridge snacks (they NEVER look in the fridge for food) and to know what’s going on with the smells and noise.
It’s an exercise in patience to not yell angrily at every living being to get the fuck out (both fiancée and kid have anxiety and ADHD, dogs don’t give a shit about my opinions on their chosen location).
don’t get with any women that do this.
Do you yourself for some reason not do this?
don’t play games like that in a relationship. Say what you mean. If you’re feeling bad, say what’s wrong, don’t make your girlfriend/wife or husband/boyfriend play a guessing game, get right to the point and spell it out.
Sir, this is about cooking. Idk what autism nightmare you strawmanned in between
