Wow, the comments went off the rails here.
I don’t usually do this, but I’m locking this post. Too much fighting.
The only negative I see on here is “history of cheating.”
I could also see how “Girl Boss” can be negative, but not in a way he means it. He just means women who believe in working outside the home.
Edit: ok, smoking too - if we are talking cigarettes or meth. Smoke all the weed you want.
“History of cheating” doesn’t necessarily mean “cheater.” To those on a trajectory to make a mistake, far better lessons come from those who made mistakes and can explain how to avoid them than those who can only say, “don’t make mistakes.” I’m sure there’s a better way to say this than the clumsy words I’ve chosen.
All of this translates down to “she doesn’t act like a combination mother/servant/virgin/nymphomaniac specifically for me and only me without ever complaining or asking for anything”
What a godamned cry baby
I got, “I am insecure in my masculinity and I need a subservient creature that I will not respect to feel powerful”
“Toxic relationship with father” and “dislikes God / Jesus”.
Gee, I wonder why this combination would appear anywhere.
OK, “uses family court” killed me.
These fucking wannabe dictators…
red flags, liberal, girlboss.
not a red flag but, how does she has multiple baby daddies+family court while also not being a mother?
That line continues ‘Not Mother / Wife Material’ which means he thinks women should care for him as though he were a child.
That’s the thing, half of these are red flag that the poster is a sexist dude bro who needs to stfu.
But when combined with the other half it’s describing a very specific type of woman who her self is a massive red flag and a shitty person.
The sorta dude bro who dates these women are shitty people, but so are the women. It’s why they get together in the first place. Both people involved here are shitty people.
But here on lemmy pointing out a women can be a bad person is as taboo as pointing out a man is a bad person on reddit. Lemmy is just the other end of the extreme echo chamber.
But I’ve know a lot of women though my life that you could describe like this. They all in first meeting then would come across as rather self empowered and cool people.
When in reality they are just the non religious half of the Midwestern trailer trash.
Really it’s a huge red flag that the people in this thread seem to be a only able to see the “positive” traits here and claim the poster is a shit person and not the type of women he’s describing.
If your willing to be blind to the negative character traits then your just living a lie. The poster AND the women he’s describing are shit people.
He’s also likely a victim of baby entrapment. Considering the family court line here. It’s a rather real problem in a lot of poorer communities. Family court is wielded just as much as a weapon as it is a shield.
This guy dreams of the times where.women were barefoot and pregnant, basically trained to be slaves to men.
Obviously, this loser sees his only chance of female companionship in someone submissive, as he seems incapable of a real partnership.
Two of these are stereotype lies. The “no female friends” and “daddy issues”.
Most women I know have lots of female friends. And have decent relationships with their dads. If they don’t then the dad was a loser or toxic.
The rest aren’t really insults, so. 🤷
It’s just this cartoon a century later:
I have no issue with any of this except history of cheating. That just screams terrible person, male or female.
For me it’s the tattoos. I like sluts. I’m not that jealous.
How does one dislike something they don’t believe exists?
i can dislike fictional characters and their fanbase just fine
Women have been liberal far longer than they’ve been conservative. I’m not getting the point.
Me in a nutshell
Too many chaotic traits lmao
At least half of the things in the pic are things I would definitely avoid in a partner (“baby daddies”, revealing clothes, not mom/wife material, girlboss, dislikes God [big show of ungratefulness], has a male bff but no female friends, etc), and I’m pretty sure the vast majority of men would also (barring parts of the West but one city in India is as populated as half of the Western world so 🤷). I still wouldn’t complain about it or take the time to draw and do all of this, it’s not like they’re gonna randomly change their lives after seeing that pic, I’d rather just continue avoiding these women like I always have the same way women do with undesirable men.
Yikes…
Why? 🤔
At least half of the things in the pic are things I would definitely avoid in a partner (“baby daddies”, revealing clothes, not mom/wife material, girlboss, dislikes God [big show of ungratefulness], has a male bff but no female friends, etc)
Some of those things are just women being women. They come with kids from previous relationships sometimes. Sometimes they wear revealing clothing because it’s hot out. Disliking god is a show of ungratefulness? Seriously? Has male friends?
You’re really showing your character that you’re an insecure man who needs someone they can control. They can’t dress how they want to, be friends with who they want to, or believe in who they want to. They must fit your narrow worldview or else they aren’t worthy for your praise.
It’s pretty gross.
