• ickplant@lemmy.worldOP
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    9 days ago

    The only negative I see on here is “history of cheating.”

    I could also see how “Girl Boss” can be negative, but not in a way he means it. He just means women who believe in working outside the home.

    Edit: ok, smoking too - if we are talking cigarettes or meth. Smoke all the weed you want.

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      9 days ago

      “History of cheating” doesn’t necessarily mean “cheater.” To those on a trajectory to make a mistake, far better lessons come from those who made mistakes and can explain how to avoid them than those who can only say, “don’t make mistakes.” I’m sure there’s a better way to say this than the clumsy words I’ve chosen.